3 Ways to Burn Out

Be kind to yourself as you learn + move forward

Be kind to yourself as you learn + move forward

I sat with my friend by the pool, sipping Snickets.

(What’s a Snicket? A shot of vodka, a squeeze of lime, a sprig of fresh mint, topped off with seltzer).

We made jokes that this is how the millionaires live: cocktails poolside.

Nevermind that the pool is small, plastic, kiddie-sized.

And I pulled out a dead cricket (the pool boy hadn’t been around in awhile).

The dog ran around the yard, as dogs do.

A dove sat above us on a sunlit branch.

And there was this “thank you” moment.

Now, I don’t know who I was thanking.

I’m not Read the rest >

Posted in business, creativity, how to be

3 Ways to Boost Creativity

To be creative, you have to do stuff differently.

To be creative, you have to do stuff differently.

This one is for my superstars who value creativity.

Here in Stella’s Laboratory, we’ve long suspected that creativity gets lauded in the “gifted and talented” way, when sometimes the experience of being creative feels more like Special Ed.

Especially in business.

Because as a creative person, you not only need to keep your eyes on the regular stuff—time management, goals, attracting clients, avoiding burnout—you are also developmentally unlike Regular People.

You need to fuel your creative engine and do weird things to keep it from gumming up and seizing on you.

Not only that. There’s added peril for the creative … Read the rest >

Posted in business, copywriting, creativity, how to be

Passive Income is a Hoax*

Raise your hand if you have been working on our passive income streams.

Okay, good.

For those of you getting the hang of the lingo, “passive income” is where you create something once and sell it again and again, with little additional work. A home study course is an example of passive income. You’ve recorded the class content, and now you just send customers the recordings and handouts. Easy-peasy.

That’s why so many of our colleagues are chasing the “passive income” dream.

And while it’s a lovely fantasy, I want to make sure you have your head on straight about … Read the rest >

Posted in business, copywriting, know your numbers, marketing, marketing online

Two ways to write a weekly newsletter

two ways to get your newsletter done

two ways to get your newsletter done

 

If this is you, it may be helpful to start this conversation here: “That’s Not Writer’s Block”

In a nutshell, here’s why it’s worth figuring out how to get your newsletter out weekly:

  1. You create the impression of having your act together
  2. You build rapport and connection with your tribe
  3. You create a platform to promote your latest program or product
  4. You hone your “message” and find what’s juicy to you and exciting to your readers (read: testing ground and market research)

From there, you need a writing habit.

Option #1 – Your weekly article writing date
My preferred … Read the rest >

Posted in copywriting, how to write, marketing, marketing online

Everybody Must Get Stoned

Don't be afraid to make enemies

Don't be afraid to make enemies

Remember back in the day when people threw rocks at women who were non-conformist, uncommonly wise, and intuitive?

I think that’s what keeps a lot of coaches and service professionals from sharing their real point of view in their marketing.

They are afraid of getting stoned like folks used to do to witches.

Deep down, are you hiding your real point of view from your marketing because you think you will scare people off… or the townsfolk will come after you?

Because you think if people REALLY knew who you are, they would not like you. And they would not … Read the rest >

Posted in brand + message, business, how to sell

Magic doesn’t fill group programs (and what does).

Words aren't all you need to fill a program

Words aren't all you need to fill a program

From the “How It Works in Real Life” Dept. —

I pull back the curtain on what it really takes to go from one-on-one work to a more “leveraged” business model. (“Leverage” = you step out of “trading dollars for hours” and start offering your services to groups, so you make more per hour for the same amount of work… and you work with people who don’t live in the same town as you!).

For the purposes of this article, let’s imagine you want to move from working with clients one-on-one, to rolling out a 4- or 5-week … Read the rest >

Posted in business, how to sell, know your numbers

The 3 ways your blog is not a diary

Few people make money off their diaries

Few people make money off their diaries

Business owners tell me: “I send a newsletter and write a blog for my business.”

What they’re really doing is publishing their diary.

I’m guessing there is some confusion out there about the difference between an article that promotes your business… and keeping a journal.

(Quick test: if you don’t get business from your blog and newsletter, it’s either a diary you are publishing, or you aren’t pubbing regularly. Or both!)

As someone who has kept a journal for more than half my life AND who successfully markets her business with her weekly newsletter and blog… I want to weigh … Read the rest >

Posted in brand + message, copywriting, how to write

That’s Not Writer’s Block

It's not writer's block. It's a business issue.

It's not writer's block. It's a business issue.

Alright, chickadees.

This one is about telling yourself the truth.

I have been speaking with many business owners across the country (and a few of you overseas!). And when I ask them “what’s your biggest challenge around writing and online marketing in your business?”… there’s one answer that’s coming up most often:

Writer’s Block.

And I’m calling bull honkey. Because here’s the thing: Writer’s Block isn’t a “thing”. It’s a state. And it is a state caused by any number of reasons. And when writing is part of the way you promote your business, you have a vested interest in … Read the rest >

Posted in brand + message, copywriting, how to write

Are you writing about the wrong thing?

Not getting a response from your target audience?

Not getting a response from your target audience?

This just in from the Where-Rubber-Meets-Road Dept.—

You may be writing about the wrong thing.

In your newsletters. On your blog. And if you’ve got ‘em, your sales pages.

It’s what I call the “Great Translation Problem.”

Here’s where many up-and-coming business owners go wrong:

  1. You write about your process. You have an intake questionnaire, a full-life assessment, and 6 coaching sessions over 3 months.

What you don’t know: your ideal clients eyes glaze over when they see this. They don’t give a hoot. What they care about are results. But you are so focused on EXPLAINING yourself, … Read the rest >

Posted in brand + message, copywriting, how to write

Your list will not save you.

In order to make a big leap forward in your business, you actually need to commit to making a big leap.

In order to make a big leap forward in your business, you actually need to commit to making a big leap.

Dear up-and-coming biz owner,

It’s back to basics time, dearface.

There’s another myth out there that’s on the rise, and your friendly neighborhood wordsmith is here to bust it.

Your house mailing list is your meal ticket.

But the problem is, if you are going from a “one-to-one” business model and working on leveraging it so you can offer successful group programs, chances are your list alone isn’t going to fill it for you.

Especially if you:

- don’t send your newsletter weekly
- don’t know how to ask for business in your writing
- don’t have a habit of … Read the rest >

Posted in brand + message, copywriting, how to be