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Social media got you down?


I’m astonished by how deeply social media has flattened the collective notion about what “getting out there” and “showing up” actually *is*. That’s not a criticism; it’s taken me years to accept that I prefer conversations and handwritten notes to develop and nurture professional relationships, not “posting”. But what’s been noteworthy lately is how I’m beginning to hear more people articulate what it is about marketing on social media that feels off to them. Among some of the things I’ve …

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Ripeness vs. urgency in the #NewMarketing

As we progress on the path towards creating clients without poking at people’s fear of missing out, shame, guilt or ‘not enoughness’… Questions arise. Like this one: If using ‘pain point marketing’ rubs you the wrong way, here’s how to think of it instead: In the old marketing, urgency is used as a psychological trigger … Read More >

How to Gracefully Start Sending Your Newsletter Again

When you run your own business, sending content regularly to your prospective customers can be a great way to build that relationship. But what happens when you stop mailing regularly and want to get back in the habit again? Read on to find out. 1.     Let yourself off the hook Many of the coaches, healers, … Read More >

The 2 biggest myths about people buying from emails

I’m seeing too many business owners who want all the BENEFITS of having a mailing list that buys from them repeatedly… … but when it comes to the work, the contribution, the sheer grit it takes to nurture relationships to the point where people will buy from a mere email… … they aren’t interested, willing, … Read More >

CASE STUDY: Don’t Skip This Ingredient For a Great Email Campaign

One of the biggest hang-ups business owners tell me they have around writing copy is that it doesn’t SOUND like them. They are themselves on the phone with clients (or in person). Warm, genuine. A guide. An authority. “But Stella, when I sit down to write – ARGH! – it’s like there’s a stranger typing … Read More >